Making friends is not difficult, but making the right ones? YES. Different people have different definition for "right", for someone who follows feels rather than wills, and a believer of first impression, (even though the misleading effect is totally understood) rule no. one is certainly the first impression, that's nature and instinct and there's nothing u can do about it; and rule no. two, the same sense of humor. That's, when u say "碌一碌", the one gets what u mean immediately when others don't; which is , same as before, not someting u can control. So, the diffiulty lies on luck and opportunity. Yes, impression can change if u get to know the people better, but the problem is, "will u?", after the first round. There is no need to please everyone, not just because it's mission impossible, but also because by nature, not everyone shares the same channel as you, and some are born against you. And when u find the right ones, u can always hear their names from the bottom of your heart... becasue there's where u put them in.  |